I-Sadism iyiqeqesha njani i-Masochism?【Igumbi lokufundela le-SM】

I-SM yindlela ekhethekileyo kubomi bezesondo kwaye ineendlela ezahlukeneyo zokudlala.ISadism kunye neMasochism imele iimpawu ezahlukeneyo zamaqela omabini.Ke kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kweendlela zeSadism kunye neMasochism kubomi bezesondo.Ke kwi-novices Sadism, ungaqala njani ukuqeqesha iMasochism?Ngoku makhe sikufundise indlela yokuqeqesha iMasochism.

I-mission yehlazo eyenziwa yi-Sadism i-Masochism ayigxininisi kwi-mission, kodwa kwihlazo.Umsebenzi wehlazo kukuhlasela ihlazo langaphakathi kwinqanaba elikhulu, kwaye kubaqalayo abangenamava kule ndawo, umphumo ubaluleke kakhulu.

Kwiimeko ezithile zomsebenzi, ungasebenzisa amagama angcolileyo kunye nezithuko kulwimi, kodwa kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo kukufaneleka kolwimi.Ubukrwada akuthethi ukuqalekisa.Unokusebenzisa amagama alihlazo abhekiswa kumalungu esini.Ngokumalunga nokunyakaza, i-Masochism inokwenziwa ukuba yenze ezinye izinto ezingazange zenziwe ngaphambili.Umzekelo, unokutyhila amalungu akho angasese kwaye uwabonise ngokupheleleyo.Okanye wenze i-K9 postures, kwaye unokubophelela i-Masochism kwizimo ezahlukeneyo.Ewe, ubuchule bakho kufuneka bube bulungile, kungenjalo buya kujongeka bungaqhelekanga.

Ngexesha lenkqubo yoqeqesho, umzimba akufuneki ube ze ngokupheleleyo.Ukukhulula ngendlela kunye nangobuchule kuya kuvuselela i-Masochism kwaye yenze ihlazo elahlukileyo.Umzekelo, sebenzisa isikere ukusika impahla yangaphantsi evulekileyo.Ewe, kufuneka uze nesibini esongezelelweyo.

Faka impahla yangaphantsi enganxitywanga emlonyeni kaMasochism.Ukuba unebhola yomlomo, ungatsiba eli nyathelo.Kule nkqubo, iMasochism kufuneka ithobele imiyalelo kunye neemfuno zeSadism.Unokuyikhaba into engamkelekanga ngokwenene, kodwa asiyiyo yonke into emele yaliwe.Kwinkqubo yokunikela imiyalelo, iSadism kufuneka ihloniphe iMasochism kwaye ingenzi ngokugqithisileyo.

Kwinkqubo yeMasochism yokuphumeza imiyalelo, ukuba iMasochism yenza impazamo, iSadism inokunika isohlwayo esithile, njengokuba ingakanani i-SP enokohlwaywa ngokwenza impazamo.Xa esohlwaya, makubale uMasochism.

Ngenxa yokuba umdlalo wehlazo ujolise ikakhulu kwi-psychology, awukwazi ukudlalwa rhoqo, ngaphandle koko xa iMasochism ihlengahlengiswe, iya kunciphisa ubumnandi.Kungcono ukuyidlala kanye ngenyanga okanye ngaphezulu, kwaye emva kwesohlwayo sehlazo, kufuneka kwenziwe imizamo yokubuyela kwimeko yesiqhelo.Hlala kubudlelwane kwaye ugcine isondo siyimfihlakalo.

Ukuba ulawula ngengqondo umnqweno wesini kunye nokuziphatha ngokwesondo kweMasochism, isohlwayo esilandelayo esilihlazo siya kuba singenakulibaleka ngakumbi!

KuMasochism othanda ukuthotywa, unokuthi "Beka ibhegi yam esinqeni sakho, yithathe, uguqe kwaye ukhase, uphakamise i-butt yakho phezulu";kuMasochism othanda uqeqesho, unokuthi “Beka ibhegi yam phezu kwentloko yakho, uguqe ukhase, gcina izandla zakho ziphakanyiswe phezulu kangangoko kwaye ungazihluli.”

Iinkcukacha ezicacileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ziyonwabisa ngakumbi kwiMasochism kunemiyalelo elula.Emva koko kufuneka ufunde ukulawula umoya.Umoya ubaluleke kakhulu kwinkqubo yoqeqesho, kodwa iSadisms ezininzi zihlala ziyityeshela le ngongoma.Kutheni iihotele zothando zithandwa kakhulu kuneehotele eziqhelekileyo?Kungenxa yokuba umoya ulungile.

Kukho izinto ezintathu eziphambili zokudala umoya: impahla, indawo esingqongileyo kunye nesingqisho.

Akufuneki ukuthetha ngempahla, wonke umntu unendlela yakhe ayithandayo.Ukunxiba okusesikweni okunxulumene nokungazibambi, iimpahla zeplastiki, iimpahla zekati, njl.njl. zinokuvumela amaqela omabini ukuba afumane uvuselelo kwaye angene kurhulumente ngokukhawuleza.

Ngokuphathelele okusingqongileyo, abanye abantu bathanda isitayile sokuzincama, abanye abantu bathanda isitayile esimnyama, kwaye abanye abantu bathanda indawo efudumeleyo nepholileyo.Iyahluka ukusuka kumntu ukuya kumntu, kodwa ubuncinane ayifanele ibe yindawo ekruqulayo.

Eyona nto yokugqibela nebalulekileyo kukulawula isingqisho.ISadism ifanele yazi ukuba yenziwa nini nokuba isingqisho sifanele sikhawuleze okanye sicothe ngokuqondwa kweMasochism.

Lonke uqeqesho lusekelwe ekuthembaneni phakathi kwamaqela amabini.Ukuba iSadism ayithembi iMasochism, ayiyi kukwazi ukukhupha imiyalelo ngokukhululekile.Ukuba uMasochism akathembeli kwiSadism, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyala kwaye ulawula njani, akayi kufumana naluphi na ulonwabo, kuba akakwazi ukuthobela ngokusuka entliziyweni kwaye azinikele ngokupheleleyo.Ukuthembela kusisiseko kunye nesitshixo ekumiseleni ukuba iSadism kunye neMasochism zingahlala kunye ixesha elide.