Ngaphambili, abantu babeziva beneentloni xa befuna “izinto zokudlala zabantu abadala” kwiiwebhusayithi zokuthenga.
Ukuzitotosa kufana nochuku olungenakuthethelelwa.Amantombazana asebenzisa amathoyizi abantu abadala aya kubhalwa “njengezingafanelekanga” kwaye “angazithandiyo”.
Kodwa namhlanje, ingaxoxwa ngokuphandle nangokuphandle.
Iingxelo zibonisa ukuba ngokuthe ngcembe amabhinqa aye aba ngawona mandla aphambili emarikeni yezinto zokudlala zabantu abadala, yaye izinto zokudlala zabantu abadala, njengezinto zokuthambisa, ziqukiwe kuludwe lokuthengwa kwamantombazana.
Utshintsho olukhulu kangaka lwenza abantu bazibuze, amantombazana anjani asebenzisa amathoyizi abantu abadala?
1. Amantombazana ajongene neminqweno yawo ngokunyanisekileyo
Kutheni bethanda ukudlala ngezinto zokudlala zabantu abadala?Iwaka lamagama linokushwankathelwa ngegama elinye: “ukonwaba”.
Umnqweno wesondo, njengokutya kunye nokulala, yenye yeemfuno zemvelo zomntu.Ukuthetha ngesini asiyonto amabhinqa afanele abe neentloni ngayo.Izinto zokudlala zabantu abadalasisixhobo nje esiqhelekileyo esinokusinceda ukuba sihlangabezane neemfuno zethu zomzimba eziqhelekileyo ngendlela ecocekileyo necocekileyo.
Kule mihla, ukuqonda kwabasetyhini ngomnqweno kuyaphucuka.Bayanda abafazi abafunda ukujongana neziqu zabo, bazikholise, kwaye bakhethe iithoyi zabantu abadala abazifunayo ngokuthenga kwi-Intanethi.
2. Umnqweno wesondo ophantsi kwaye kufuneka uvuswe
Enyanisweni, asingawo onke amantombazana azithengelayo izinto zokudlala zabantu abadala.Ukuphucula ulwaneliseko kubomi babo bezesondo, amakhwenkwe amaninzi nawo aya kuthatha inyathelo lokuthengela abantu bawo amathoyizi abantu abadala.
Ngenxa yomahluko kwisakhiwo somzimba, amadoda kunye nabasetyhini banamaxesha ahlukeneyo okuphendula kubomi bezesondo.Amadoda afana neeglowubhu ezilayita ngokukhawuleza zize zikhanyise ngokukhawuleza.Iimvakalelo ziza ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula ukufumana ulonwabo.Kwabasetyhini, imvakalelo iza ngokucothayo.Asikokubaxa ukuba “kubilisa phezu kobushushu obuphantsi”, ngakumbi xa umoya uphantsi.
Ke ngexesha lokulungiselela, inkwenkwe inokukhuphaizinto zokudlala zabantu abadalakwaye wenze i-foreplay, kwaye uzame ukuvumela intombazana ukuba yonwabe "i-appetizer" kangangoko kunokwenzeka.Ebudeni bomdlalo wokwenene, ungasebenzisa izinto zokudlala zabantu abadala njengoncedo lokuzinzisa imvakalelo yolonwabo.
3.Amantombazana anandipha ulonwabo kunye namaqabane awo
Amantombazana acinga ukuba ubomi babo bokwabelana ngesondo buyadika baya kukhetha ngokusebenzayo ukwazisa amathoyizi abantu abadala ukwenza imvakalelo yokutsha kumacala omabini.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba zinzulu kangakanani iimvakalelo, azikwazi ukumelana nokuhamba kwexesha.Xa ubomi bokwabelana ngesondo buba ngumsebenzi kwaye akukho mntu unokuyonwaba kuyo, kunye nokongezwa kwamathoyizi abantu abadala, omnye nomnye unokufumana ukutsha "kwimpumelelo" kwaye afumane ulonwabo ngokulula.
Izinto zokudlala zabantu abadalainokuba liqhina lonxibelelwano phakathi kwezibini.Ukuba nezinto zokudlala zabantu abadala ezitsha kufana nokuba nothotho lokuhlaziyeka.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jan-18-2024
